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Wait, are you the OP of the other thread about your surgeon husband who works "7 days a week", "hot sex" with you daily, yada yada, but can't be bothered with family/kids?

I think that thread was deleted because it was clearly a troll post?
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Nope.  Honest question on my part -- what should I do?[/quote]

Honest question: Do you think some other random guy you meet and date us going to be more interested in your kids?

That’s a harsh way of putting it but there’s nothing to do. Divorcing him only makes life worse fir your kids. It’s not like it would be easy to find another guy to take his place. It sucks. Make the best of it. [/quote]

Who cares about another guy?

Do you know how F’d up it is to be a child in the house and your Dad, if home, just ignores you and your mom? Rarely talks, rarely interacts, rarely proposes an idea or game or outing, maybe tags along but still is T present or sticks in his phone? Do you know what that kind of neglect and inattentiveness does to a child?

Well for starters they will latch on to other male figures for attention. They also have that expectation of how they will be as a male adult or who they will seek out as a male partner. They will beg for shreds of attention from him, and be disappointed over and over again. They will wonder what they did wrong that Daddy always ignores them. They will go to a friends house for dinner sometime and be shocked that their friends dad talks, asks questions, plans some stuff and chit chats over dinner with everyone. They will wonder what is wrong. [/quote]

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