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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She said she had been talking to the surgeon on istagram for 1 year.

If Bill truly loved her, he wouldn't have cheated for 2 YEARS. That's different than a fling/ error in judgment.  Would he have stayed if she cheated?

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If he truly loved the OW, he would have left his marriage.[/quote]

Nope, it’s way more complicated than that when you have kids and are in a long term marriage. You can love the OW, but not want to break up your own family. [/quote]

It's possible, but not very common with men, particularly in midlife.  Many men cheat for variety and escapism and some messed up insecurities they have with aging.  65% will report they love their wives and are happy in their marriages.  It's a 'them' problem, not a 'we' problem.  When women cheat, it is more often about an exit affair.  Women and men fundamentally approach sex differently.  All of the sex industries: prostitution, porn, high paid escorts, red light districts are designed for men because men can have sex with no love.  Women may think they can but always catch the feels.

I find it amusing that the argument is that the man can love the OW, but a cheating man can't love his wife.  This is some weird Bridges of Madison County fantasy with no insight into the cheating sex industry like online affair websites, etc.[/quote]

We aren’t talking about the cheating sex industry. We are talking about a 2 year relationship Dr Bill had with OW. I don’t doubt there were feelings of real love there, but he’s not going to leave his family for the OW. That doesn’t mean he didn’t love her. People in affairs really love each other but it doesn’t mean it can work out long term or that they will leave their spouses for their affair partner.[/quote]

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