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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m a successful overachiever. I have been this way my whole life. It’s caused problems in my romantic relationships, because many men have been jealous or felt inadequate as a result. I do not look down on men who have less money or career accolades than me. I like to have a balanced life with work and fun, and would like to have a partner who’s the same. I also don’t want to have to “play dumb” to keep a man. Are my expectations realistic? If so, how do I begin vetting for and attracting men who have space for a woman like me?[/quote] I think you should take a realistic look at your performance as relationship partner. What you describe as "over-achiever" might just be someone difficult and unappealing to be with. Contrary to popular belief, men are not repelled by intelligent women, and they are not repelled by strength. No one likes a weak dumb woman. But look with a critical eye on how you express what you think is strength. [/quote]
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