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[quote=Anonymous]Op, I’ve dated several divorced dads, including one with a situation similar to yours. I understand how you feel. The people who are dumping on you saying you need more friends etc. don’t seem to understand that a, we’re in a pandemic so people are less social, and B, we’re not in our 20s. When I was first dating my current boyfriend, who has 50-50 custody, we understandably went through a period where we were exclusive, yet not at a point where I was around his kids very much. Those days were definitely lonely for me. Because my friends were all busy with their own husbands and little kids. Sure, maybe I can make social plans for one or two of those nights, but the rest of the time I was staying home alone. It’s not a normal to want a relationship where you can see your significant other the vast majority of nights in a month That said, if you are really into the guy, you only have three more years of this. If he is ever in NC when you don’t have your kids, do you ever go down and join them?[/quote]
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