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[quote=Anonymous]I wouldn’t date until you are single, op. Nobody wants to go on  date with someone who is still in a relationship or mooning over someone else.

Your therapist’s suggestion sucked, though maybe he/she was saying that you don’t need to sit home alone, though again, you can’t leave your kids who are little home alone even if they are sleeping, so yes, I think your therapist is a turkey.

As for you, anybody likes kid-free time especially if sex is involved.

You say your kids are little, your ex is willing to have your custody schedule match up with your boyfriend’s, do you have the skill set to be in a relationship with anybody when the sex and food aren’t flowing and the kids are in the presence of someone else?   Not trying to be mean, that’d be what I’d explore in therapy, not the guy you’re dating.

If you like this guy so much, tell him what you need. If he kicks the can down the road, there’s your answer.  If he says yes, be sure that you don’t put up with bad behavior from him directed at your kids.  Also, realize that teenagers are different then little kids, many people don’t understand that, they view teenagers as bigger versions of say a 6-year-old.

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