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Reply to "I was so naive re marriage, career and kids "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, you’ve bumped into the reality. Very few men are capable of handling all the responsibilities involved with raising children in our modern society. Is what it is. And children are especially challenging when they are little. Outsource what you can and slog through these early years. [/quote] +1 I'll repeat... most men should not have kids. They may like the idea of it, but when reality hits, they can't handle it, or they will put in the bare minimum effort, and say that the wife has too high standards, and he should be able to do things his own way, which again is bare minimum effort. Who cares if it's bare minimum effort? Why does your child only deserve the bare minimum? Should your wife only give you the bare minimum sex, as defined by her?[/quote] DH doing a lot of the hands on caregiving. The wife doesn’t seem to do much. This sounds like neither really want to be parents. [/quote]
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