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Reply to "I was so naive re marriage, career and kids "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Honestly OP you work too much. I'm the higher earner in my household (by a hair) and neither my DH nor I work that many hours a week, except in rare circumstances - major project deadline, etc. You need to prioritize your marriage and your self-care. You need to have another conversation about admin stuff and lay out the explicit list of things you want him to do and say that's part of being a primary caregiver. Or hire it out (part-time nanny, etc.)[/quote] So much entitlement so little time, I work more than 60 hours a week b/c student loans, mortgage, not born with silver spoon, etc. PK student, copious babysitters, husband not capable of being primary caregiver. Not everyone can cut back like those of you subsidized by rich boomers. [/quote]
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