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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Guy here.  Before I even opened the thread I thought "Yes".  After reading it, "Definitely, Yes".  That seems too forward (and tacky)[/quote]

OP: Darn. I guess it's just confusing because he's been so respectful in person (only kiss on the cheek- not trying to get into my pants), and has only texted sweet things so far. After the second date he sent, "you're stunningly beautiful and I love getting to know you."[/quote]

Wanting to have sex with you doesn't mean he's not nice or a player.

But stop seeing him because DCUM told you to[/quote]

OP: I'm totally okay if he wants to have sex with me AND wants to get to know me as a person. I'll definitely go out with him again. I'm just looking for a way to weed out the players early on, since I don't want to waste time.[/quote]

They tend to weed themselves out .  You don't have to really do any work there. Being overly critical and looking for meaning in everything would make you nuts, cause you to hate dating and miss some good opportunities for awkwardness. For all you know he's been told he needs to be more flirtatious..

You need to learn how to communicate better if you were uncomfortable with the text you either tell him so  or ignore the text.  You don't tell him you think it's hot and then bemoan him only wanting you for sec[/quote]

Seriously, OP - you sent him that response and NOW are thinking about "what it all means"! It doesn't mean anything. See him again in person and see how it goes. If you are uncomfortable in person, tell him. Or weed your own self out now, since you don't know what you want from him.[/quote]

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