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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DD was looking at highly ranked SLACs and had some not great grades sophomore year related to COVID. In winter last year, we set a goal of having her be able to make an ED decision by 10/15, to have time to get paperwork signed. We did a lot of visits in spring, summer and fall. A lot of discussion. She talked to a number of people, like teachers, guidance counselors, alums. And really put the time in. By early Oct, she had three top schools and was able to rank them 1,2,3. All were high matches that she was significantly likelier to get into ED. So, she had an ED1, ED2 and a defer to RD. She got into ED1. My thought after watching it play out Is that your kid needs to suck it up and make a decision at some point. October, April. Eventually you have to choose. If you start seriously doing college mid junior year and you and your kid have the mindset that the deadline is October, and do all the work, research, visits you need to do to have a decision (we visited the 3 finalists twice), then you are ready to make a decision in October. The problem is most people have a May 1 decision mindset. So, of course they aren’t ready to make a thoughtful ED decision. The only downside was she still needed a college list and to start on supplemental essays while waiting to hear. [/quote] I think this is all true, but also very helpful is to have a bunch of EAs that you would feel good about going to.[/quote]
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