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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They love their children,[b] but are too selfish to place their children’s best interests ahead of their own.[/b] [/quote]

That's a good way to put it.  But, I question how much you can love someone when you are that self-centered.  And stop with this delusional mental gymnastics 'the affair saves my marriage' BS.[/quote]

A parent's sex life has nothing to do with kids. An affair is prolonging the marriage. If it were not for kids, he would be gone. Why people don't get this is beyond me. OP--would you rather waste more time or leave now? That is your choice.[/quote]

How can you say that something that threatens the stability of the household and finances has nothing to do with the kids? You’re just gambling that you won’t get caught. If you get caught cheating, you end up with a more acrimonious divorce and co-parenting relationship than you would have had without the cheating, which affects the kids. You mess up your spouse, which affects the kids. It’s easy to say that people who are having affairs are only staying “for the kids,” but plenty of childless people cheat on their spouses without leaving the marriage, so it’s more complicated than that.[/quote]

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