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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is it more about finding right religion, cast, ethnicity, social status, looks, income etc or the person? It’s fine if there is no rush to get engaged or marry immediately. If you date for a year and then decide, it may work better but most parents are against it because then things tend to go sour. [/quote] Two adults who have gone through all the work to make it to medical school and have a good work ethic, probably have good examples of functional families in their own lives, are educated and high SES, have vetted each other after dating others, decide to marry with the blessings of two families and are being judged by a group of dysfunctional people whose national divorce rate is 50%? ok. sure. [/quote] Fair point, but the colorism and misogyny embedded in the process is absolutely ripe for in-culture and out-culture critique. [/quote]
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