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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I admit I am having difficulty. Its a whole new culture and I feel like a snob when I want things from my childhood vs what my MC husband offers me. I do not have a trust fund or what have you as my parents mismanaged their money, but while growing up I had a wonderful life. I knew my DH was raised LMC/MC but he went to good schools and I assumed we'd have a solid UMC life...so far still MC due to smaller incomes and HCOL. Its really hard on me. I don't know if anyone else can relate.[/quote] Why put all the pressure of your pretentious lifestyle on your husband? How about you get yourself a JOB? There is no more Mommy and Daddy. You are a snob. [/quote] She says that she has an income, so I would assume that she has a JOB. I don’t get the impression that she is putting all of this on her DH. It sounds like the situation makes her sad, and then she feels guilty for feeling sad. [/quote]
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