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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't understand the quesrion.[/quote]
would you support a 25 year old moving home for a year? other questions I could ask but didn't: what was your experience like having a professional living at home? anything I should know/think about?[/quote]

Think about how you are going to handle contributions into the various aspects of living together.   If you have cleaners/landscapers/etc, do you expect her to contribute to the cost?  If you are doing all the work yourself, what/how much do you expect her to contribute?

How are you going to handle the food cost and cooking?

What's going to be your visitors policy?   What about any overnight guests?

Does she have her own car?  Is she going to be using yours?

Do you expect her to be home by certain time?

Discuss all of the above beforehand and, hopefully, you'll find yourselves on the same page.

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are you the mom from hell?[/quote]

No, I am the daughter from a family where adults discuss things.[/quote]

No, you're the mom from hell.

The idea is to move home and pay loans off.  So, no, you don't expect her to pay the cleaners and landscapers -- or even food.  And no you don't have to agree in advance if she'll mow the lawn.  And you already know whether she has a car, and if she doesn't you know you're happily lending her yours when you can.  Etc.

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