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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, these posters are coddling you. He loves you, but yes, he notices.[/quote]

So?  Nobody stays the same!  We all get older, if lucky.  Women's bodies change .   Particularity if you have had children.  My dh isn't the same and we all notice.  But I wouldn't leave or cheat on him because of that.

That is the difference.[/quote]

Yeah, but the ideal is that you age at roughly the same pace. She said her husband looks the same while she's aging quickly. Control what you can, and it sounds like she's debating on whether to exert control over what she can improve. It's a good idea.[/quote]

No that’s not the ideal because it’s not normal. Men often (maybe typically) stay looking “better” longer because of womens’ change in fat distribution and menopause. Yes there are exceptions and yay you but thanks to biology many women and men just have to deal with an attractiveness disparity between the ages of maybe 45-55. And it’s fine. Most of us are not partnered with somebody who embodies all of our ideal attributes.

Personally I want to be one of those women who is confident in who they are and comfortable in their own skin rather than consigning themselves to steady dinners of broccoli and half a chicken breast just so their husband thinks they look hot. IMO those women and the husbands who are proud of them are pathetic. [/quote]

Women who want to took hot for their husbands are pathetic? Wow. You have some deep-seated self-esteem issues that you are projecting on to other women. [/quote]

Yes, women who take extreme measures so their husbands will be attracted to them are pathetic (although I do also just feel bad for them). They’re the ones with self-esteem issues, not me. I will continue to love and respect my body no matter what and if my husband isn’t on board that’s his issue and not mine. [/quote]

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