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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.

P.S. I know that my extended family haven't literally forgotten about me. They know where I am. I text my aunts and uncles every so often.

I do feel a bit like I'm on the outside looking in. 
An example. My husband and I have never been invited to celebrate Christmas with my extended family since my parents died. My remaining parent died in 2008 ...[/quote]

For whatever reason they just aren't that into you. So move on and find people who are. Invite your new friends to a Christmas party in December. Make it an annual tradition.

Stop feeling sorry for yourself and build a life. Stop going back to the people who aren't interested.[/quote]

OP again.

You are probably right, but they're the only family I have left. I found it hard enough losing my mom when she was only 51 and my dad when he was 64.

I don't know why they're not more interested. My mom's side of the family were never that close. They're friendly towards each other and there were never any disagreements in the family (that I know of), but they just weren't close.
My Dad's side of the family is small and most remaining relatives on that side are very elderly. They like it when I call or visit them.

I agree with making new friends but I personally need that bond with family too.[/quote]

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