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[quote=Anonymous]This may be on you OP. My DS wore pull ups for an extended time and I kept it private from the beginning even from family. Partly it was due to my DH and his memory of being shamed for bedwetting, but also because it's a private matter for DS, even if he is not yet aware it should be private. I tried not to make it seem like a big secret, but instead that as we get older, our bodily functions are our own business and no one else's. We take care of it and move on. Other families are maybe not going to treat this in the same way as I would so I leave them out of it. I'm sure it was tough for your DS, but this is how many families view this, so I go out of my way to protect my DS because though he initially didn't care, he did eventually so I'm glad I kept it private from the beginning.[/quote]
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