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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would suggest for the DHs in sexless marriages to start hitting the gym regularly and putting more thought into grooming and appearance. I'm a single mom now, but in your DWs shoes, I would definitely take notice if you suddenly lost the belly fat and were spending more time on your clothing. And didnt bother to ask me for sex for awhile, yet seemed happy nonetheless.

For the poster with the wife in remission, I'm sure the perception of her femininity took a beating during the process. If she can only have sex with the lights off, she might fear that you were see the flaws she's been hiding and be turned off. Also, knowing that you are thinking about sex most nights puts alot of pressure on her. I would also suggest planning activities for just you and the kids where she can have some more "me" time. If she's a SAHM especially.[/quote]

First monk here:

She has plenty of "me time." What an ugly, cliche. Our kids are in school 9-4 every day. On weekends they are with me solo almost entirely. The second part has been that way since they were babies. Some of that was by necessity -- it was up to me to keep them entertained during her illness. But even before she was sick and since she's recovered, i've taken charge of the kids. She gets far more "me time" than I do.

As for physical appearance, I know I'm not the specimen I once was. None of us are 10 years hence. Whatever. Of course, I stop giving a shit anymore.[/quote]

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