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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well, I'm the higher earner so I would not have been the one to stay home. But the cost of working, meaning going into the office? Kids are older so I save $10K/year not paying a cleaning crew and dog walker, and maybe $5K/year on metro fees, work clothes, and the occasional lunch out. So $15K. When the kids needed childcare while it school, it ran about $10k/year per kid for aftercare and full day summer camps. We both make six figures (I'm getting into mid 6 figures), so these costs are a fraction of our income.[/quote] In addition to being the higher earning spouse (DW here), I also get a pension and 401/match. This is the true cost of not working. My retirement account alone is in the 7 figures (age 48), and my pension will be at least $80K/yr when I retire in 10 -15 years. So you need to calculate this. While we did have nanny and PT preschool costs while kids were under 5, now that both kids are in elementary school, aftercare is only a fraction of this cost. Plus I largely worked from home before COVID, so my kids weren't at aftercare very long.[/quote]
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