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[quote=Anonymous]Op you sound so kind. I had a fil a bit like this and honestly, now that he is dead I can say that I don’t feel bad for drawing boundaries. You should draw boundaries. You can give him the benefit of the doubt but your dh needs to give you the benefit of the doubt. I can see from my our posts that you are so kind. Yes what you are saying is not convenient for your dh but that doesn’t make it less true. Your fil needs to stay at a hotel during his visit. Or dh can visit him. But no one who has abusive to your child can stay in your home. This is one of the many crappy parenting tasks you did not know you were signing up for but you must. This must be your hill to die on. And this isn’t because you are a bad person. Your dh is failing to step up here. He should feel much worse than you are feeling. He can go stay for 2 weeks at the cabin. Then you go on vacation for 2 weeks somewhere. With your kids or without as you prefer. [/quote]
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