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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ask him? How shoukd he spend his time while you are away? Hopefully, it's just middle age hormones making you jealous. If he isn't a cheater, he isn't cheating.[/quote]

I guess I could just do that.  I worry he'll think I don't trust him.  Many years ago I got very jealous about what I saw as flirtatious behavior toward one of the au pairs we had, and I ended up feeling like I made a big deal over nothing.[/quote]

Oh, wait a minute! Did you witness or imagine you saw the flirting? How did he react? Are you always jealous, or only when something is up with dh?[/quote]

It was just the way he was around her especially at the end of the year before she moved out, it seemed too familiar to me.  I can't really describe anything concrete.  But I talked to him about it and he made me see that there was nothing there, I was just overreacting.  She ended up staying in the area and we remain good friends and have her over for dinner occasionally, although that will probably happen less now that DS is off at college.   I'm not usually a jealous person. [/quote]

Your kid just went off to college and you still hang out with their Au pair???

Talk about too familiar.

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I've never had an au pair, but close have friends have. You don't understand--they can become part of the family. They had two different ones, and whenever they are back in the country, even we go down the street to visit them. That's not weird. What is a little strange is OP thinking they "started young," when they sent an 18-year-old off at the age of 49. That's pretty normal.[/quote]

I'm 50 with an 11 year old. My eldest is 13.[/quote]

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