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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It sounds to me like you want closure of some sort. I've mostly thought that closure was hogwash until recently. I've had conversations with two exes and they were enlightening to say the least. Those relationships both ended over 20 years ago. I found that giving a whooooooole lot of space and time enabled us to look at this with less of an emotional lens. I'm not saying to wait 20 years to talk to him, but your emotions are clearly still sky high. Talking to him at this point won't do any good unless you want to reconcile. [/quote]

I’ve never asked anyone for closure ever. I don’t want to as if it’s just going to be a favor, feels pathetic.[/quote]

DP here (upthread lesbian) and if that’s how you’re feeling, the don’t do it, at least not now. There might be nothing he could say or do that would really give you closure.  Maybe after a lot of time has passed, yes, but by then, you will likely already have given yourself the closure you needed. [/quote]

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