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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Guys like this are probably gay.[/quote]

Nah, he’s trying to sleep with whatever woman might have him.  [/quote]

This.  He’s not gay; he’s predatory.  Guys like this are grooming women with their goodness.  The grooming lures you in so that when their is a minor boundary violation or discomfort, you will not squawk.

A  prominent public examples of this are Eric Schneiderman - the NY AG who physically abused his girlfriend by choking her during sex an tried to pass it off as mutually consensual kink play (subtext because feminists are more open to sex in general and kinky sex).  He also used his work background prosecuting DV to send the message that he couldn’t possibly do that.

I had a former fiance do a version of this - sucked me in with his ostensible feminism and his good works in a helping professional field.  All his friends and coworkers told me what a great guy he was.  Not until I was firmly hooked in the relationship did I stumble across prostitute use and his secret manipulation of me.  Thankfully, I got out, but it wasn’t easy.

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