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[quote=Anonymous]OP again. I just read this post in another thread: [quote]Doesn't attraction fade over time? I see all the threads of women saying they don't want to have sex with their husbands after a decade or more despite being attracted to them at one point. My DH is attractive but I have zero desire for sex. I would rather be married to someone kind and a good partner at this stage since the sexual part leaves the marriage for most couples over time.[/quote] This thinking is SO ubiquitous! I, too, used that line about my H being attractive. He was, objectively. But what I didn't have enough experience to understand back then is that that didn't mean [i]I was attracted to him[/i]. But I didn't think there was anything better or more fulfilling out there for me because this refrain of "marry your best friend!" is drilled into us.[/quote]
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