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Reply to "What sustains a marriage more -- good sex life or good friendship?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sex. Was married 17 years yo my best friend in the world. We never argued, could finish each other's sentences, tackled everything as a team. Sex life declined after kids, but we still were doing it about once a week. So not amazing, but not sexless. He ended up having an affair with his extremely homely, frumpy secretary. She was infatuated with him and I think in the end he craved that power imbalance, the feeling like a masculine hero to a needy damsel who literally had to ask him permission to take lunch. He was a pretty passive guy for the most part, and I think that thrilled him. [/quote] This analysis sounds so spot on.[/quote] It's a great example of how, in general, the sexes are different. The post above talking about friendship being most important is someone who will be blindsided by cheating. Men primarily feel love through sex. If that's not a priority in the relationship, it has a shelf life and his eye and heart will be open to another[/quote] That’s not love. That’s a guy with low self esteem having a midlife crisis and feeling all mighty and powerful to his homely secretary that worships him for being out of her league. That’s not going to last and built in lies, hence the added thrill. [/quote]
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