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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m OP.  Have a friend of a friend I’m increasingly running in circles with- never paid much attention to him before, but as we see each other more, I’ve noticed how much we have in common and genuinely kind he is- so I’m just noticing him more.  He’s not ugly, just not my type, but wondering if maybe I have been too superficial in the past.  [/quote]

I did this. Have now been very happily married for 12 years. DH fits every single thing I’m looking for except for looks, and in the end, that one factor wasn’t worth throwing everything else away.[/quote]

Does your DH know you don't find him physically attractive?[/quote]

NP… typically, men don’t get more attractive over the years… they get pudgier, balder, more wrinkly, etc.

Foregoing a man’s attractiveness if they fit all the other criteria is not the dumbest choice in the world I think.[/quote]

That doesn't really answer my question now does it.  Maybe you and pp would be fine knowing your spouse doesn't and never did find you attractive.[/quote]

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