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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Other than visiting, the in laws assume you are adults and will handle your own life. Do you want them to offer you money or do you want to curtail their visits? I get that you are stressed and aren't interested in putting on a brave face. Tell your DH you need a long break from visitors. Could he handle that. If not, you tell the in laws.[/quote] I don’t need them to offer money I would love it if they would apply some pressure from their end, and/ or verbally acknowledge to me that there’s a clear issue and discuss it openly. Or alternatively just not add pressure Eg his mom often asks me to do favors - now isn’t really the time [/quote] I’m in a similar situation with an aspie and his mom kept the family secret quite well while marrying off her kids. She’s not going to help. Try the father. Or whichever one doesn’t also have adhd.[/quote]
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