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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Does your friend think that she is such a bad parent that she is raising criminals?[/quote]

Do you seriously think no criminals come from good parents?  Good parents produce drug addicts. Drug addicts commit crimes. It’s part of the disease of needing money for drugs but frequently not having any. [/quote]

Mmmmm...drug addicts are created by nurture much more than nature.  Think about the behavior chain.  That didn't spontaneously happen.  It was nurtured from the moment of birth.[/quote]

I have two cousins who are drug addicts. They were adopted as infants. At least one of their parents was an addict. Their adoptive parents raised them well, taught them how to behave, etc. They experimented with drugs in high school and that was it. Their sibling was not adopted and also experimented. She is not an addict and went to graduate from college. Nature is what got them hooked.[/quote]

I am sorry but the research doesn't support any of what you're saying.  I appreciate that you're trying to "protect" your aunt/uncle but you need to recognize that those kids ended up experimenting with drugs because their parents were not providing the right support and structure in their household.  They also weren't monitoring the kids very well.  The sibling who was not adopted (raised by another family or her birth family?) got what she needed so she stayed on the right path.  If your cousins had gotten what they needed they, too, would not be drug addicts today.  [/quote]

Says the mother of toddlers.[/quote]

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