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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]And yet everything worked out. Maybe you were too uptight in hindsight? [/quote]

And when his parents **insert any boundary crossing in laws from "family relationships** he'll tell you that you knew what they were like before.  It doesn't have to be like this.

You should feel heard and respected by your partner.  If he can't do that, find someone who can.  Don't lower you standards. [/quote]
OP Actually what annoys me post-covid is that he has started to admit his father was dismissive of covid precautions. Like...yeah, I know, I dealt with it for a year and a half.[/quote]

But you went along with it. You realized you had anxiety, why should your partner drop everything and just stay home to placate you? That's not fair to him either. Sounds like you are two very different people and just just part ways. You're both selfish in your own ways and should find other people more similarly minded.[/quote]

I disagree. OP, he put your health at risk. There may have been a way for him to mitigate this by saying, OK I understand if you don’t want to visit my family given their practices around COVID. I do want to keep seeing them so I will quarantine/mask and test afterwards (for example). But that’s not what he did. It was his way or the highway.

Honestly this guy sounds immature in terms of how much he’s willing to give in a relationship. I hope you seriously consider whether this is worth it. I had my first child in my mid 30s. You still have time to find someone else.[/quote]

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