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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m not one of these wives but I assume they do all the things you’ve suggested in real life and an anonymous outlet gives them momentary freedom to be honest with the uglier side of their feelings. [/quote]

Bingo.  They can say everything they can’t say IRL.  It’s an incredibly isolating and lonely thing to go through because to protect the kids and family they don’t share what happened with anyone.  They suffer in incredible silence.  With other tragedy or death, you have a village come supper you, check on you and it’s accepted that you are down, sad, can’t work well.  With betrayal you are pretending every single day with a big smile on your face for your kids, neighbors, family while you are dying inside.

It’s a horribly unique trauma.[/quote]

+1 and they feel shame and judged.  Everyone always blames them for not having done something in the marriage which is why they were cheated on.  They don’t do that to men when they’re wives are the cheaters like they do to women.  It’s awful.[/quote]

Well, yeah, look at what people (women!) say about them even on this forum.[/quote]

Exactly.  It’s the women on here who are the harshest critics.

I think the OP sounds smug which frankly isn’t helpful either.[/quote]

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