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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Our nearly 21 year old son attends an Ivy League college. He seems social, has a good amount of guy friends. Most of them have girlfriends. And most of his high school classmates also have significant others. Our son takes female dates to some college events, [b]which he shares on social media,[/b] but he hasn't had a girlfriend so far at college. I[b] see his peers flying to and from each others' homes on social media[/b]. But every college break we ask if he'd like money or a flight to go visit any friends (i.e. a girlfriend's hometown) and he has said no every time. And he has never asked to bring a girl home. I'm sure the first comment will be he could be gay. Not that there's anything wrong with that, but I don't think that's it. Or maybe he's a secret Lothario. No, that's not the case. My worry is he's immature and looks it. I think he comes across as much younger than his age but I don't know how to explain this to him. For example, he's really into that Barstool sports obsession nonsense. He also has my husband's baby face, so he still looks like a high school boy.[/quote]

Why are you watching your kid & your kids' friends social media accounts?  This is weird.[/quote]

Not at all. Default settings on Facebook can put anything your kid is tagged in or comments onto your feed, even if you aren’t connected to the friends. And any photo your kid is tagged in will post itself to their page.[/quote]

You think her college aged kid is using Facebook? LOL[/quote]

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