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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] Why would you pity a man who married a smart, educated, attractive wife who is loyal, loves sex, and gave him two beautiful children, and so far, 23 years of committed marriage? That's so weird. Trust me. He is one happy man.[/quote]

NP.  We pity him his loss of agency when you were dating - he thought exclusively- and you were seeing other people.  We pity him because he has a wife who  has flimsy boundaries.  What if your “two beautiful children” were in a long-term relationship they thought was exclusive but their partner was seeing other people but didn’t think they had to share that?  I’m sure you would be the first to condemn the partner - and you should, because it’s cheating, just like you cheated.[/quote]

Who said anything about "long-term?" I mean, really, I guess the terms of the relationship on which one "cheated" may make a difference. I am one of the PPs who said they cheated on now spouse in our 20s. I just didn't take our relationship as serious as he did. Once I realized he was more serious, we talked it out. He was understanding. I eventually decided I would settle down. And we've been faithfully married for 23 years. I would never have been able to marry or settle down with someone who was judgemental and narrow minded, I guess.[/quote]

How would you feel if he had cheated or been talking to other women while you 2 had dated?[b] What if you found out he had had his head between the piano legs of a chunky woman[/b]?[/quote].

I’m dying  :lol: .  You perfectly described my Ex and his AP.[/quote]

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