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[quote=Anonymous]OP, focus on changing your own feelings and not on him or trying to change him. It is the only thing under your control. Divorce will mean more logistical issues and less money to outsource as it goes to 2 residences. I don't know how significant your child's SN are but I was not able to afford as many therapies, interventions, etc after DH used a new relationship as a temporary neurological boost and bailed. It did not make things easier, for me, or for the kids. It is actually way worse for the kids now, they hate spending holidays with random strangers and sometimes their kids. The anger and frustration are spiking a lot of cortisol that is terrible for your own health. CBT or DBT therapy might be more helpful, talk therapy and couples therapy made me more angry. [/quote]
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