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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think this is me, even though I choose to be single ATM.  I've always had a ton of men trying to get to me.  I currently have very rich and some even famous men in my DMs trying to talk to me

1) I'm conventionally attractive, "beautiful" according to most people
2) I have a positive attitude and am generally happy go lucky
3) I dont care that much about male approval which seems to call it to you, bizarrely
4) I'm an interesting, fun conversationalist.

I think that's about it.  It's not that complicated, men are simple creatures.[/quote]

Men don't like to be challenged. Get it. And that's great when the husband doesn't need any negative feedback either. But what happens when they do need to be challenged?[/quote]

This. See what happens when he makes serious mistakes/adds serious negativity to the relationship and needs to be held accountable and see how much he enjoys that.[/quote]

I will say for some of you guys who are saying that men dont like to be challenged- that might be true.  You cant really change a man, that's why you have to vet at first.  At lot of the women on here on the "who pays" thread saying they would go half and half.  A lot of the women on here ran into a marriage at 23 because they felt they had to get married early. A lot of the women tolerate man baby behavior and hope he changes.

That's YOUR FAULT.  if you pick men who act right from the jump, and also who are mature/open to hearing feedback, it's not a problem.  Smart women figure that ish out early.

I know not every woman has the same options as me, but seriously- some of you whine about your husbands and he always was a loser since the day you met him.  So why did you marry a loser?[/quote]

It's hard to predict how someone will act 20 years later after a family. I picked someone who had a steady job, a steady family, some friends, went to college, was of the same religion, wanted a family and was a good father. He turned out to be a disaster 20 years later with an addiction and various forms of infidelity. Some form of a midlife crisis. He wasn't the top of his class and I guess had some low self esteem issues he was still dealing with. But what of it? Many top people are control freaks. It's not that easy to deal with the people who are in the middle of the pack. We now know more, but it's still really difficult to gauge how a person will act over the course of a lifetime. One of my mom's friends had a fantastic  husband till he got cancer and he became incredibly abusive and she had to leave him after trying to deal with it for five years even after remission. You just never know.[/quote]

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