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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would think the vast majority of kids without SN (and many with them) should be fine to do this by age 10, but possibly much earlier. I guess the issue is side-eye from other patrons even with a "perfectly behaved child," but I'd assume that much less likely after the age of 8 or so.

With the caveat that "perfectly well-behaved" at a place like this does not include a phone or a tablet, even with headphones. Even though adults don't always follow this, and even though, if you have to do it because you must attend something at a fancy place and have a very young and/or SN kid with you, well, you gotta do what you gotta do.

I don't think the OP's 13 yo would "require" a tablet, but I could see parents doing this with a 9 yo, and [b]it's distracting and should be avoided[/b]. [/quote]

How are the silent activities of someone at another table distracting to you?[/quote]

And what are you concentrating on that you are being distracted from?[/quote]

It's not that that serious, okay? But you can be distracted by things other than sound. Such as flashing lights and moving pictures. And yes, it's different to our brains from the movement of a live person, in a way similar to the fact that hearing one side of a conversation when someone is on a phone is different from hearing an actual conversation between two people at the same volume.

Again, not the worst thing in the world, but preferably avoided *at a very very expensive restaurant where people have possibly saved up to go for a very very special night*. I don't love it at the Cheesecake Factory either, but I'm speaking of acceptable or ideal behavior at a very nice place.

It also seems premature to take a kid (if you don't have to) to a restaurant they can only survive with a tablet. What's the point? If you don't have to?

And I already acknowledged adults can be worse. Through whether used by adults or kids-- tablets are obviously worse than phones because they're more visible.

It's like a lot of suboptimal behavior. It's not going to kill anyone, but yeah, it's kind of uncool.[/quote]

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