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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Men do the same thing, OP. They date and date and then decide they're ready to settle down and do the whole wife and kids thing. Whoever they're dating at that point is who becomes Mrs. It's not that complicated.[/quote]

Agreed, I did this with my DW. It also helps that she's intelligent, successful, hardworking, we share the same politics, and she's attractive. Right time, right place, right person. That said, she's not the only woman in the world who I could spend my life with - I'm sure there are multiple people in the world I would've gladly married had I met them.

OP - you're overthinking this and anxiously looking for trouble. She's either going to be a great partner for you....or she's not. Be honest with your feelings and make your decision.[/quote]

I’m very happily married to DH for almost 15 years.

In my late 20s every guy I dated I was screening for marriage. I met this amazing guy and we were dating for a few months but he was about to head off the medical school and wasn’t ready to settle down or start a family in the next few years. I broke it off and was sad for a very long time but obviously the timing was off.

A year later I met my DH and there was also an immediate connection. Obviously we are now happily married with kids, so I consider him “the one”, but if it hadn’t been him it probably would have been someone else. Doesn’t mean I’m any less crazy about DH to acknowledge that.

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