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Starting a post with "I hate so-and-so" is the hallmark of a juvenile and thoughtless approach. Your sister is not Stalin or Genghis Khan. A little introspection on what steps you can take would be more useful than ruminating over every childhood incident. Most siblings fight and say harsh things, OP, yet still love each other. If you sense that your sibling is mentally ill (narcissistic, personality disorder, psychopathic, etc), that's something she's not totally responsible for and that you cannot fix. You must distance for your own safety. If she has a run-of-the mill personality conflict with you, then it's time to grow up and accept you two aren't friends, but that you can still enjoy some time together occasionally. 
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While it is certainly possible that OPs sister is a narcissist or mentally, the original post is quite vague and emotional and does not contain any details to substantiate claims that the sister is mentally unwell, evil, or a narcissistic. There are plenty of posts on here that do describe egregious terrible or abusive behavior by family members; however this is not one of them and instead the OP comes across as dramatic and vindictive. OP I would suggest taking a look in the mirror before attributing all of your familial problems to your mother and sister. How are your other relationships? Perhaps it would be beneficial to run these interactions by an impartial third party to get their take on things. Good luck. [/quote]

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