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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, have you considered adoption? I know someone who adopted a baby from someone who didn't want a third child or an abortion.[/quote]

NP but I feel like adoption would be really hard to explain to her older kids?[/quote]

Just explain that they couldn't keep the baby because it was too expensive but the baby went to a loving, caring family. Maybe keep the adoption semi-open so the kids can kind of know their sibling. Or don't tell until they're older, from what I've read they seem kind of young.[/quote]

Right, easy-peasy!

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I'm not saying adoption is easy ([b]I've adopted a child, I know how hard adoption is)[/b], I'm saying it's an [b]option[/b]. [/quote]

Your posts show you do not understand how hard adoption can be. Not even a little bit. The level of tone deaf indifference and failure to see beyond your own needs is worrisome. Your attitude is everything that’s wrong with adoption.

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How did the PP "fail to see beyond her own needs?" She just wanted OP to know adoption was an option.[/quote]

I'm the PP who asked if she wanted adoption. [i]Someone else [/i]answered the "what will she tell her kids" question and said that she adopted a child, not me.[/quote]

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