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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So you know that your husband's family has a different attitude and traditions for how grandparents interact with grandchildren, and you've decided to take it personally that they don't have the one you had?  Nothing about what you wrote tells me that your in-laws are "indifferent" to your kids, only that they don't want or have the kind of interaction you want.  And you are making it into a personal rejection, even though it's probably just how they are and how they were raised.  Stop comparing them to other people, and figure out how to work with what you've got.  [/quote]

This. I also couldn't help but wonder if they are moving away to get some breathing room from  OP[/quote]

Troll [/quote]

Not agreeing with your viewpoint does not make someone a troll. It sounds like OP is overbearing and trying to force her in las to be what she thinks they should be to make up what she is lacking from her own parents, it doesn't sound like they are at all interested in the level of involvement op has been pushing and refusing to accept. Now that they are 3.5 hrs away OP will no longer be able to just show p at their house.[/quote]

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