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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My ex-AP was very in love with his wife.  I was incredibly jealous. [/quote]

That is so messed up. I was in love with my AP but if I knew he was in love with his wife I would not have been attracted to him. What he did to her was awful. But I think she was in love with him too.[/quote]

It was messed up.  I told him not to show photos and we stopped ever talking about his family.  I was not happy in my marriage and he had by all appearances perfect wife and kids and a rich family/social life.  I talked to my therapist and it was a case of “I want what she has.”  He never once said a bad word about her, that’s what should have tipped me off he had no plans to ever divorce.  I wasted a lot of time.[/quote]

I also wanted what she had, in general, but it was more of a coincidence than the motive. I didn’t have a “slide into her life” fantasy. I wanted him. I knew that to get him, she would have to keep that life and we would have to start a new and different one. Did not care. I just wanted him.[/quote]

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