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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] It was messed up. I told him not to show photos and we stopped ever talking about his family. I was not happy in my marriage and he had by all appearances perfect wife and kids and a rich family/social life. I talked to my therapist and it was a case of “I want what she has.” He never once said a bad word about her, that’s what should have tipped me off he had no plans to ever divorce. I wasted a lot of time.[/quote]

It sounds like you need more therapy.  Nothing in your post suggests you wouldn’t do it again if you thought the AP might actually fall in love with you.  Therapy should help you realize not just why you did it but why it was wrong, so that you gave some remorse and wouldn’t do it again.[/quote]

+1,000

I know some women like this.  They have zero remorse because they hate their husbands and they have zero empathy.  They think they are blameless in the situation. If caught, it's everyone else's fault.  They never once think how what they did harmed this woman and her family, let alone their own family.  It's really a form of mental illness---personality disorder.  They will often blame the person they had the affair with taking zero responsibility or acknowledging their part in it.  [/quote]

I don't think these kind of women even go to individual therapy because they don't think they need it.  They are not self-aware enough and too disordered.[/quote]

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