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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Never.  But I had a few years of “business sex” where I was stressed, strapped and no libido- so was a more passive, non-initiating partner when my kids were in elementary school.

When husband got over his midlife entitled behavior and started really chipping in and kids reached MS/HS, my libido came back hard.

We never missed a week without sex though, even the years I had little libido.[/quote]

cool story bro[/quote]

Interesting you doubt this post - why? This was my (wife) experience - sex was more routine/businesslike/less passionate/less frequent  when kids where small - libido/frequency/passion returned big time when kids were older. But we never let it  become "sexless" - always had 1x a week. Now, more like 5x. [/quote]

If men would know this and hang in there instead of going out and cheating during that time.  Sigh.[/quote]

I don't think men should go out and cheat regardless, but the bounce back is absolutely not guaranteed even if the guy is a solid husband. I'm sure the bounce back isn't exactly rare, but I'm not convinced its better than a 50/50 chance. [/quote]

Chrissakes, she didn't even completely stop sex.  She was still having it weekly.[/quote]

I wasn't really talking about her situation specifically. I was more talking about the other PP's reference to "men" generally. It's not uncommon for people to say that libido will bounce back if the husband is patient. And, as a general matter, I don't think the evidence for that is great. [/quote]

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