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[quote=Anonymous]I disagree with the PPs who are sure there is more. I think him telling you , voluntarily, deleting her number, etc. is all good. He should engage in counseling to get to why he did this and work on firmer boundaries. His actions need to match his words, though so far it seems that they are lining up. I think he needs to send one “no contact” message to the OW and you need to see it - “I have told my wife what happened between us. It was a huge mistake and terrible decision on my part, and I will always regret it. I love my wife and family. There can be no contact ever between us again. Do not contact me ever.” I also think he needs to tell his friends that he will never hang out with them again if she is there, especially if they know what happened that night. If the OW is married, you should tell her spouse. He deserves to know, and it keeps two sets of eyes on the situation.[/quote]
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