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[quote=Anonymous]Sounds a bit like cutting off your nose to spite your face. Your ILs won’t hang out with you when you ask; therefore, you won’t hang out with them when they ask. I have relatives who frequently say no to plans, but when they invite us over (once in a blue moon) I try to attend if at all possible because I enjoy spending time with them. Yes it annoys me that it’s like pulling teeth to get them to agree to my plans, but I try to tamp down my ego. Of course, I do genuinely like them despite their quirks. If you and DH don’t like spending time with your ILs in general then that’s probably a good reason to not want to see them. Just make sure it’s not an ego thing.[/quote]
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