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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]First time: “Hey, you forgot to move the bag and animals got into the trash. I cleaned it up, but please remember next time.”

Next time it looks like he’s going to forget: “Hey, you forgot last time and I had to clean it up and it was disgusting. Can you please do it now?”

Second time you have to clean up: “Larlo, you forgot to take the trash to the bin again, it’s not fair to make me clean up that horrible mess.”

Honestly I’d leave the mess for him to clean up unless it’s actively dangerous (like chicken bones and you have a dog). If you have to do it, you say “Larlo, you keep forgetting and the animals make a huge mess that I have to clean up so the dogs don’t get hurt. I’m really frustrated. Something needs to happen differently.”[/quote]

NP - I get this approach except the trash will attract rats and vermin and it's completely unsanitary.  Plus what if they have guests???  Trash all over the deck is one of those things that needs to be cleaned up ASAP.  Her husband sucks.[/quote]

Depends on the timing. If he’s going to get home an hour or two after her, I don’t think it’s a huge difference and the unsanitary condition is not substantially worse. If he’s going to be home the next week, yeah, it needs to be cleaned up. [/quote]

But she said he doesn't clean up the mess when the bag is ripped open and she has to do it.  So it sounds like he leaves the bag, it gets ripped up, then she has to clean it because he won't.  That's absolutely terrible.  Divorce him.[/quote]

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