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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree with you in 90% of cases but sometimes it is the DIL/SIL who is actively trying to reduce contact or family vacation time. Like the son/brother will be on the phone and she’ll pull him away for something trivial (which is okay if it’s occasional, but not if it’s constant). Or the son/brother wants to visit, but she’s “in charge” of the social and vacation calendar and there’s no room to see the ILs. Again this is not common but it is true for some families.[/quote]

This is still a son or brother problem. The fact that he puts up with it or is ok with this is HIS PROBLEM to solve with his family and her. Not HER problem to solve. He may not see anything wrong w it. Which means it’s the family who needs to get over it. [/quote]

Or, he does have a problem with it, but she is nasty to him when he tries to make a change and see his family more, threatens divorce, gives other ultimatums. So, while he is at fault for not divorcing her, she is at fault for being… herself.[/quote]

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