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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Affairs aren't real. Google limerance. Your brain is going through withdrawal, and it actually activates the same portion of the brain as withdrawal from narcotics. It will hurt and be miserable for awhile. But it gets easier, and soon you will be able to putit into perspective. But you have no right to mope around. You have no right to expect patience or sympathy for what you are going through. Affairs are severe forms of emotional abuse, and the epitome of selfishness. You hurt people, and no one will feel sorry for you.[/quote] The latter two things are true but the pain is still real. You can’t expect to be comforted but any couples therapist will tell you that the grief of the betraying spouse is real and part of the recovery.[/quote]
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