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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s the price of shared walls.   [/quote] no it’s not. It’s the price of living next to an entitled prick. I had the exact same issue and complained to management and it would stop for a day or two and start back up. Finally met the neighbor at one point and told him straight up his music or tv was keeping me awake really late, and I have to work (with kids) really early. I seldom hear him anymore. He seemed really surprised I could hear him. [/quote]

Thank you.  This is really good advice.  I should mention that another reason I'm afraid to speak to him is [b]because I'm a conventionally attractive young woman,[/b] and I get incel-ish vibes from his habits/schedule, so I want to avoid some weird situation where he hates me or is extra douchey because i'm a female. I think if I were a man I would have no issue going over and addressing him directly. [/quote]

And now you lost me.  I was going to suggest building management and then noise complaint with police, but since you're so pretty, figure it out on your own[/quote]

NP but why on earth did this make you so angry? [/quote]

Because how dare a woman know that she is attractive and openly acknowledge it! Women’s self-esteem should only come from the scraps men throw them from time to time. [/quote]

Wtf does her “attractiveness” have to do with her noise issue?!?

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NP. [b]If you don’t understand how a woman’s appearance impacts the way others treat her, you’re out of your mind. (This is also true for men, of course, but to a different degree.) Attractive, unattractive, arty, corporate, preppy, whatever. And, the truth is that women—much more so than men, by and large—need to evaluate potential risks as much as possible when figuring out how to approach situations.[/b] I agree it seems like OP may be stereotyping this guy and/or judging him but he’s also an inconsiderate jerk who is making her living situation uncomfortable, so I can’t blame her too much for that.

That said, the fact that a bunch of you instantly lost all sympathy for a person just because she is a woman who calls herself attractive is disappointingly typical. Of course, if you met her in real life, you’d also likely be more primed to be sympathetic toward her than a less attractive woman. [/quote]

This right here is a truth bomb. [/quote]

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