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[quote=Anonymous]OP, don't worry about the 'lost years'. That's in the past. It sounds like you are dealing with your health issues - which is awesome - so just focus on the future now. My younger sister married a guy who had cancer in his 20s. All those years we were supposed to be traveling and dating and finding the career of our dreams... He spent them in chemo, just trying to survive. They met around 30/31. He was about 4 years in remission, and living life the best he could. They are now (late 30s / early 40s) among the most active and adventurous family (with two little kids) I know. Red flags aren't about what happened to you in the past - they're about who you are now. Don't worry about putting people off with your history, just think about who you are today and who want to be (and want to be WITH) in the future. Relationships will follow according to how you present yourself. [/quote]
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