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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes he’s emotionally and psychologically abusive and is gaslighting you now by trying to rewrite history as you the Bad Guy.

Lots of books in this. But get through the divorce and only do short emails or texts with him. Good riddance.[/quote]

You are hearing one side of this, you can’t know this is true.

OP, I don’t think you need to spend time thinking this through, other than in terms of what makes you feel good, healthy, empowered so you can set the right parameters in future relationships. [/quote]

Yes, I need to process it to kind of have a story to tell myself, if you know what I mean? I am very confused tbh. He is not a classic abuser, but not a completely sane, mature person as well. I am trying to make sense of our relationship in very general terms, like on a resume. Married Larlo, had a child, it didn’t work out as we both made mistakes and we split? [b]Or was it that Larlo suddenly turned abusive with a change in circumstance and I had to end it? [/b][/quote]
So you want to rewrite history to remove your own behavior and agency.[/quote]

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