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[quote=Anonymous]I can totally relate, OP. I’m a mom of 4, 3 elementary school aged and one toddler. I used to really struggle with my husbands incompetence similar to this until the pandemic happened and I lost my mind for a bit there. Yelling at the kids a lot (I never used to yell), drinking way too much, crying all the time. I’m better now, but that experience of me losing the thread for awhile there really caused my husband to figure shiz out. Furthermore, he realized just how much I do around the house when all he does is go to work and come home and cook/put kids to bed the one night of week I work late. So, yeah, I don’t know what I’m trying to say. Maybe you should lose your mind for a bit so it scares him and he has to step up? But honestly though, you shouldn’t have to suffer like this. Talk to him openly and set some boundaries. It’s not working for you, and you matter too. Just as much as he does. [/quote]
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